For the past 10 weeks I’ve focused only on family, health and me. At first I didn’t know if I would enjoy it, find the money or even the time to do such task but now I realize with the proper planing it’s not as crazy as it sounds. Now I’m glad I did because I feel energized and more creative than when I started my vacation.
Slowing down is scary
12 years ago I said to myself I was never going to be broke again. My family was going through some economical valley and I decided to get my first job. I like to think I’ve worked hard for that goal and for the past decade I haven’t really stopped hustling besides the casual 1-2 week vacation. Until last February.
If like me you have a hard time slowing down, make sure you plan ahead so you don’t get worried all the time. The idea is to rest and enjoy life. It might not come natural at first but with time it won’t feel wrong.
How I did it
It all started with a job offer. I knew from previous experience that the visa process takes a long time. If I was ever going to try this experiment this was the time. This doesn’t mean that you also need to find a new job in order to take a long break. Maybe your business has a time of the year that is really slow, or your current employer would be OK giving you some unpaid leave. Think of what works best for you, the important thing for me was to have something ready to come back to.
The second thing was to change our lifestyle because I wasn’t going to have a source of income. My wife and I decided we were going to stay with my in-laws in order to save on rent. This also allowed us to spend time with them before living thousands of kilometers away.
Finally I made sure we had enough saved. This was not retirement, saving for a couple of months was not an impossible task, specially if we wouldn’t be spending as much! We just cut down on some expenses and used our budget wisely.
What did I do during this time?
I used this break to take better care of my body. I got a medical check, I started exercising again and I’m getting better at having a healthy diet. I realize that this needs to be high on my priority list from now on, not only during a long break.
I also had quality time with my wife, her parents, my mother and brother. Family is very important for me and I was able to strengthen my connection with all of them.
Even though I was on vacation I didn’t stop using my computer. I actually used a lot of time to play around with technology I normally don’t have the time for but that I really like. I think this helped my creative side.
Reading, lots of reading. I really enjoy this me time and it helps me energize.
Lot’s of things are happening in the weeks to come but I don’t feel stressed. Moving to a different country. Starting a new job. Day to day tasks happening in a different language. Normally I’d be super anxious about this scenario but not now.
I don’t think I will be able to have a long break every time a major change happens in my life but now I know it’s not impossible if I wanted to. I also understand that building better habits is key in life.
If you think you need a long break I encourage you to take it. Don’t wait until you are burned out or a major illness hits you.